What is does absence make a girl miss you?

Absence can indeed make a girl miss you, but the effect is highly dependent on several factors:

• The Foundation of the Relationship: A strong existing connection built on genuine affection, shared experiences, and mutual respect will make absence more likely to be felt and missed. If there's little or no connection to begin with, absence won't make much of a difference. See also The Foundation of the Relationship.

• The Reason for Absence: Is it due to work, travel, or intentional distance? Intentional absence, sometimes referred to as creating space, can work, but it must be done carefully and shouldn't be perceived as disinterest or punishment. Unexplained or prolonged absences, however, can lead to insecurity and resentment. Learn more about The Reason for Absence.

• Communication During Absence: Complete radio silence isn't usually the best strategy. Occasional, meaningful communication (a thoughtful text, a quick call) can maintain the connection without overdoing it. The key is to find a balance. More information on Communication During Absence.

• Her Attachment Style: Someone with an anxious attachment style might miss you intensely during absence, while someone with a more secure or avoidant attachment style might be less affected. Understanding her attachment style can help predict her reaction. See also Her Attachment Style.

• Her Perspective on the Relationship: If she views the relationship as exclusive and committed, absence will likely have a different effect than if she views it as casual. Discussing expectations is important. Details on Her Perspective on the Relationship.

• The Duration of Absence: A short, well-explained absence can pique her interest and make her appreciate your presence more. A prolonged, unexplained absence will likely have the opposite effect. Consider The Duration of Absence.

In summary, absence can work, but it's a nuanced approach. It's most effective when there's a solid foundation, clear communication, and an understanding of her individual personality and expectations. It's not a guaranteed tactic, and can backfire if not executed properly.